Yeah, I know Christmas was about a month ago.
I realize that I have a duty and an obligation to share my Norwegian experiences,
and that I have been slow and letting you all down!
Luckily there is no expiration date on pictures and sharing. :)
Part of the problem is is that I no longer think of these experiences as "Norwegian experiences" and super exciting, must-share happenings!
This is my fourth Christmas in Norway. My FOURTH!
These experiences have become routine, normal and nothing out of the ordinary.
And wonderful! Wonderful, yes, yes, that too of course!
It's been long enough that these traditions feel like my own.
For the past four years we have traveled to Tynset to celebrate Christmas with Lars' family.
We decorate a local tree with Norwegian flags and simple ornaments on
the night before Christmas Eve. The Christmas tree lights look like candles and are white--not colored and not blinking! No fancy business.

We enjoy great food, drink and company later that night at the Snarvolds and watch
Hovmesteren on TV. We laugh a lot and eat arguably too many Christmas cookies. The same procedure every year.
We eat rice porridge (
grøt) with the entire extended family at noon on Christmas Eve (Day).
We take it for granted that we will have a white Christmas.
It's just the way it is deep in the heart of Eastern Norway (although this year was strangely "warm").
We clean and decorate the entire house for Christmas! Again, it's just the way it is; everyone does it.
Sometimes we go to church, sometimes we don't.
This year we didn't. Sometimes we sleep on the couch.
And we always set the table, and use the fancy china and no one gets mad if you spill a little
aquavit here or there. And everyone eats seconds because it's delicious food, but also because it's tradition and that's what you do.
We dress up and eat
ribbe on Christmas Eve in those fancy clothes. Yes, it's true--no pajamas, no Christmas morning and no stockings! And that means no mimosas either
(yeah Dad, I caught onto that as a teen)...
But there's wine! And coffee, and cognac and Baiiley's and whatever you could wish because after dinner we eat dessert--a different variant of rice pudding (riskrem) with berry sauce or cloudberries and cream (multekrem) and then, and only then, do we open presents!
We eat an insane Christmas breakfast with the neighbors on Christmas morning.
Sometimes this includes aquavit, sometimes it doesn't.
And then we stretch our legs with a long walk afterwards. Dogs are welcome.
We enjoy each other's company. We laugh and make merry and remember a year well lived.
We celebrate Christmas Norwegian style!
And after my fourth go at it, I realize that when I make it back to the US to celebrate Christmas again that I am actually going to miss these traditions...
...these "new", "Norwegian" traditions that have become my own.
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